Sometimes there is nothing else to do but watch reruns on tv.
Sunday night I tuned into an old episode of Grey's Anatomy. I was not phased by the main characters in this episode but the lives of the patients they were treating. There was a car accident. Three lifelong friends are in one car while their husbands are in another car. They experience more pain this one day in all their lives.
One woman looses her husband. Another woman learns that her husband lost his job a couple months ago and had an affair with her best friend.
Imagine that...
loosing both your husband and your best friend...
not their lives but their trust...
After watching the movie "The Woman" I realized I could never be Meg Ryan fighting for my husband. If and when I marry it will be for love, and not to divorce, but if he should go astray, that's it. Over.
I do not want a man that will leave but always come back, I want a man that will never go. How could someone ever forgive her friend or her husband after that kind of betrayal?
Life is hard for all of us...
Everyone goes through tough times...
Having sex with someone other than your spouse will never make it easier.
There are no excuses.
I know I could not do that and it is that simple to me.
Why is it so hard for others to understand that?
When you are strong and can control yourself, despite tough times, how can you stay with someone so weak to betray a most important trust?
I am not sorry.
I am proud.
Too proud to ever stand by any male or female that betrays a lover or friend with lies.
This is obviously a very sore topic for me. I still get sick when I hear although I had an affair I will still love you always. Gotta say BS! because I know I could never look at someone the same way again. Nor would I offer a second chance. You only have one life to live, there are no dress rehearsals, live life accordingly.
"happily ever after" don't set yourself up for future, live each day, stay true to yourself and those around you and if you are lucky you will have a happy day each day which is a possible reality that i live for each day :)
2 comments:
I know what you're talking about. I agree somewhat, but I think every situation is quite different. sometimes the wife is at fault too, though it definitely doesn't excuse the cheating AT ALL. but I do believe, at times, the husband can do with a second chance. nobody's perfect, and there are just moments of weakness. as long as the person feels horrible about it and know he's done wrong.
every situation is different. my ex was dumb and got his girl on the side pregnant. cant go back there. and since thats in my past i dont think i could forgive anyone else since i wouldnt my first love.
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